Real talk: "Why Settle?"

Hi hi,

So I was on my own at 3 am, on my bed begging for sleep,  and a thought came to me,
"Why settle?"

I refer to myself as being cocktail, I am half Nigerian and half Togolese (yes, i speak English, French and my 2 natives Languages, yup am super human, *big grin*  lol).
Back to the matter, I come from 2 cultures that have very different views on marriage.

The general Nigerian view is that if you are not married by 28, it is either a spiritual problem, you hang with the bad girls or you have a bad character.

On the other hand, the togolese sisters are chilling and living life to the fullest, there are a number of unmarried females that are not even under the slightest pressure and they are still alive and well.

All am saying is if you haven't found your companion, soulmate or other half, stop being depressed and stop considering that guy that makes you feel like you are settling.If he is even the slightest bit abusive, he is definitely not worth it.

Live Life and let things happen at thier pace.


My little 2pence!!!

*kisses*